After you finish the high school (gay or straight, it is usually better for everyone).
After you escape the girlfriend trap (he marries you or he dumps you, it gets better either way).
After you are out of depression (either drugs, or time, or hard work, or therapy, or GOOD PEOPLE - something or someone will work for you, and it will get better).
After your effort is welcome and appreciated.
After you experience fairness, beauty, and help.
